你内心住着什么鬼？

一天，在森林里，一只大肥猪和一只小瘦猪，遇到了一只大灰狼，你觉得这个故事怎么接下去比较合理呢？
A、大肥猪吓唬小瘦猪说：“大灰狼要吃掉你啦！”
B、小瘦猪对大灰狼说：“我又瘦又小，还是用大肥猪能做出更多的肉肠。”
C、大肥猪对小瘦猪说：“别怕，我又大又壮，可以保护你的。”
D、大肥猪和小瘦猪都被大灰狼吃掉啦！

E、它们三个成了好朋友

测试结果：

A——你内心里的“鬼”是一个有霸权主义的将军。
无论你的外表多么温顺，但在内心深处，你有着一种超出常人的优越感。你也往往对自己在某一方面的才能感到相当自信。就算帮助别人，也是为了能够展现自己的这种优越呢！

B——你内心里的“鬼”是一个胆小怯懦的小女孩。
你的心灵，缺乏足够的安全感。小小的异常状况，就能让你忧郁不安好些日子。如果不能自己说服自己，那么别人的安慰往往没有什么用呢！为了保护自己，你的思想和行为也容易因为害怕而变得具有攻击性！

C——你内心里的“鬼”是一个乐观，具有正义感的“英雄”。
你对这个世界的看法公正，承认美好和邪恶并存；而且相信通过自己和大家的努力，邪恶也能被克服。因此在日常生活中，只要还有努力的空间，你都会尽量去争取，要你屈服可不是那么容易的事呢！

D——你内心里的“鬼”是一个老成持重的老人。
你有着和年龄不相称的成熟，像老人一样思虑过度，用惯性思维来看待进行中的事物；甚至会因为对某件事物悲观的预测，而放弃了努力的机会。自己就算真心喜爱某样东西，也会自觉地把它当作“无理要求”拼命压抑住，真是很辛苦呢！

E——你内心里的“鬼”是一个天真乐观的小孩。

你相信这个世界是美好的，邪恶的事物最终都将被美好所感化。因此，你对他人通常没有任何防备之心。或者你现时所处的优越环境，根本就没有让你受到伤害的机会。但是这样处于真空状态的你，一旦受伤，往往会伤得比任何人都很重！

爱情中那些不变的真理

如果你发现自己放不下对方，那就不要再强求自己去忘记，因为这样只会让你更加痛苦，让一切顺其自然吧。
不要轻易说出承诺，也不要轻易相信诺言，因为那永远只属于那时那刻的感觉，有一 天感觉没有了，诺言也随之消逝。
不要欺骗对方，也不要被对方骗，因为两个人在一起信任是最重要的，骗人最伤人。
不要轻言放弃，爱情没有你想象的那么脆弱，只是我们把它弄的很脆弱。
不要每为对方做一件事都想着要对方怎么回报，要对方怎么对你好，其实爱情里永远没有公平，所以如果对方也爱你，那你会感觉到爱的。
做什么事情之前都问问自己的心，不要强迫自己去爱一个人，也不要强迫自己不去爱 一个人。
如果你还很爱对方，想继续爱，继续对对方好，那就去做，但不要刻意让对方知道，因为刻意的爱，对方只会觉得你纠缠不清，要相信老天爷是公平的，你做了，就会有回报，总有一天对方会知道。
不要试图用另一段感情来掩盖自己的痛，如果你真的爱对方，因为这样只会让你自己更加的痛，同时还伤害了另一个人。

不要去刻意了解对方的过去，因为每个人都有隐私，你爱的是现在的他，而不是过去的他。

我爱你，女孩别说太多遍

一段爱情中的激情期最长可以维系多久？如果从科学研究的结果来看是三十六个月，也就是三年的时间。专家说，三十六个月之后，情感就变得复杂起来，有爱情的成分，也有可能转换为亲情或者友情。

每一段感情开启时，我们都期望天长地久，可是在当今这个时代，爱情变得脆弱和不经风雨，如何才能让爱情历久弥新呢？作为爱情科代表，我见过大量的爱情案例，总结之后我认为有个方法不错，那就是——我爱你，女孩别说太多遍。

我们的父辈，感情方面常常比如今的年轻人更加稳固，除了思想观念淳朴之外，和当年开始感情的方式也有很大关系。

那个年代，大家思想保守，从见面到拉手可能得半年的时间，这半年里没有手机可以随时联系，不能见面的时候所有的思念全部在脑海里翻腾，一遍又一遍，那种茶饭不思的挂念是现代年轻人很难感受到的。从牵手到拥抱，可能又得几个月的时间。爱慕、渴望、牵挂，积攒到了一定程度，才是结婚，才是日夜拥有。

自很小的时候，我就认为感情是需要过程的，只有过程持久，感情才会持久。而过程短暂的，结束也可能很快。

我有一个好朋友，钻石王老五，大家都会觉得他身边一定美女如云，可是有一次聊起来，他却很苦恼地告诉我，他很难找到真爱，因为他喜欢追求的过程，可每次看上一个女孩子，几乎都不用太过追求就已经拥有了，所以得到后很快就觉得索然无味。当然，他的 爱情观我并不赞同，但是他的话还是让我思考了很久。

再讲一个我见过的例子：
一女子和丈夫在一起八年了，却从来没有和丈夫一起沐浴过，也没有一起更衣过，甚至睡觉都习惯穿着袜子，她的理论是：对男人要一点点地给，一次让他吃饱了，他下次就没了胃口。就比如一个女孩子和人家在一起了，很快就“坦诚相见”，最初那个男人可能会 很有兴致地欣赏，但很快就会觉得熟视无睹，索然无味，爱情的温度自然也随之下降。她的话我也思考了很久，觉得很有道理。

爱情中，我们常常变成了施舍者，对方要什么，我们就大方地给什么。其实如果平时少说“我爱你”，偶尔说一次他就会无比珍惜。当然还有一种更高的境界，就是让男人先说“我爱你”，然后让他急着问你：“亲爱的，你爱我吗？”此时一定要注意，不要立刻回答，故作矜持不告诉他，男人这时反而常常会缠着你，你呢，可以笑着用 征询的眼光看着他，就是不回答。慢慢你就会发现这是件很值得回味咂摸的事情：你天天问他爱不爱你，他就变成了敷衍，你不问，他反而比你着急。爱情有的时候就是博弈，谁先出手谁占下风。

物以稀为贵，爱情中，这句话一样有道理，慢慢地给他你的情感、你的温度、你的爱恋，你会收获更长久的爱情！

如果还在一起

如果当我28岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们牵手去见彼此的家人，
获取他们的认同。

如果当我29岁时，
我们还在一起，
我会挽起留了很久的长发，
做你最美的新娘。

如果当我30岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们一起期待着迎接那个加入我们小家庭的新生命的降临。

如果当我31岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们一起用心经营我们的家，
每天听着宝宝稚嫩的声音叫我们“爸爸”，“妈妈”。

如果当我34岁时，
我们还在一起，
不管周围的人如何分分和和，
继续着我们的幸福。

如果当我40岁时，
我们还在一起，
就算最初的激情已被现实的生活打磨殆尽，
一切归于平淡，
但彼此的目光仍然会追逐着对方的身影，
相视一笑也会觉得安心。

如果当我50岁时，
我们还在一起，
孩子离开我们去追寻他们的幸福，
虽然想念宝宝，
依然还有你陪在我的身边，
每天傍晚手牵手一起散步。

如果当我60岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们都已该休息，
有了大把的时间一起去做彼此曾经想做而没做的事，
去想去而没去过的地方。

如果当我70岁时，
我们还在一起，
身边的孩子们都已经称呼我们“爷爷”，“奶奶”，
你还是当我是个不会照顾自己的孩子，
呵护着你眼中的“孩子”。

如果当我79岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们要通知所以认识的人，
邀请所有的人来参加我们的金婚纪念日，
分享我们的幸福快乐。

如果当我80岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们会每天躺在摇椅上一起晒太阳，
虽然不知道生命会持续到哪一天，
因为身边有彼此的陪伴，
不再恐惧死亡，
享受生命中的每一天。

如果当我走到生命的最后一天时，
我希望身边有你陪伴，
我不要做那个留下来的人，
请允许我自私的先离开这个世界，
又或者你坚持不了了，我愿意陪你一同远去...
因为，
没有你的世界是冰冷的，
所以，
亲爱的，
如果到了那一天，
请让我先走，或带上我一起，
因为，
曾经属于两个人共享的幸福我一个人收纳不了....

When It Comes To Love

When it comes to love.. If you truly do love that person then you will push through any adversity just to be with them, whether it may be distance or just things people say in general, because in your mind the person you love is worth it, through the pain you know good times are in store for the future, so you stay strong and do whatever it takes just to be with them because they hold this special place in your heart and can make you feel like no one can make you feel. If someone means something to you and you know that is the person you want to be with then don't let anything stop you from being with them, only you have the ability to control your decisions, so if you want to be with them then do it because if you want it bad enough, it can happen. Sometimes when it comes to love you have to fight for that person to show them how much they mean to you, so by all means do it and let them know that your heart is true and that it calls one name, theirs.
"Distance doesn't matter. If you want to be with someone, do something about it because you know you can if you really put your mind to it."

谁？

如果我想要抱抱、誰會讓我抱多久都行?
如果我想找人聊天、誰會陪我聊到大半夜?
如果我突然想要聽歌、誰會在我耳邊輕輕的唱?
如果我累了、誰肩膀給我依靠?
如果我哭了、誰會幫我擦眼淚?
如果我失蹤了、誰會滿世界的找我?
如果我淋雨感冒了、誰會給我買感冒藥?
如果我因為沒睡想要補眠、誰會給我個舒服的枕頭?
如果我遇到傷心的事不想待在這裡、誰會一句話不說就帶我離開這裡?
誰會在我傷心孤獨的時候給我個堅實肩膀?
如果我希望有人為我做這些、誰會願意為我這樣做?

How You Define Love?

How do you define Love?
People define love base on their experience.

But for me "Love is Acceptance".
Why? Because when you love that person, you accept that person for who he/she really is. It's when the negative things about him/her doesn't affect you. Meaning, you clearly love him/her only if you've accepted that person.

That's why Love isn't blind at all. It sees, but it doesn't mind :)

Jealous Thing

When a girl is jealous, it is normal. But if it is for a boy? Come on :) To tell you the truth, only a few boys are loyal to their girlfriends now. You're lucky to have a jealous boyfriend. It doesn't mean that he doesn't trust you, he's just afraid of you to fall in love with others. Especially about spending time together. Whenever you're with him, make him feel the most important boy in the world. And he'll love you more than anyone else :)

How To Love a Woman

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together, but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze, and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.

Do You Know Your Blood Type?

You know, that there're different blood types, so A, B, AB and 0.
What's about the blood type and the characteristic written to it. Let's see! ^^



Blood type A

 

People with blood type A have a deep-rooted strength that helps them stay calm in a crisis when everyone else is panicking. However, they tend to avoid confrontation, and feel very uncomfortable around people. A types are shy and sometimes withdrawn. They seek harmony and are very polite, but all the same feel that they never really fit in with others. A types are very responsible. If there is a job to be done, they prefer to take care of it themselves. These people crave success and are perfectionists. They are also very creative, and the most artistic of all the blood types, most likely because of their sensitivity.

Blood type B

 

People with blood type B are the most practical of the blood groups. They are specialists in what they do. When they start a project, they spend extra time understanding and trying to follow directions than others might. When they are doing something, all of their attention is focused on it. They tend to stick to a goal and follow it through to the end, even if it seems impossible. They tend to be less than cooperative, as they like to follow their own rules and their own ideas. They are individualists. B type people pay attention to their thoughts a little more than their feelings, and therefore can sometimes seem cold and serious.

Blood type 0

 

People with blood type O people are outgoing, energetic and social. They are the most flexible of the blood types. They easily start up projects but often have trouble following through because they give up easily. They are flighty and not too dependable. O types always say what's on their mind. They value the opinion of others and like to be the center of attention. Also, people with O blood are extremely self-confident.

Blood type AB

 

People with blood type AB are hard to categorize. They can have characteristics on both ends of the spectrum at the same time. For instance, they are both shy and outgoing. They easily switch from one opposite to another. AB people are trustworthy and responsible, but can't handle it when too much is asked of them. They don't mind doing favors or helping out, as long as its on their own conditions. People with this blood type are interested in art and metaphysics.

 

So, related to dating, it's believed, that this blood type combinations are really well fitting together:
A is most compatible with A and AB.
B is most compatible with B and AB.
AB is most compatible with AB, B, A, and O.
O is most compatible with O and AB.

So do you know which blood type you and your friends are?
Can you recognize some characteristics fitting to your blood type?
What do you think about that!
So, I in personal believe, that you can't generalize people based on their blood type or something else...but when I read the description of the characteristics of my blood type..wow...amazing. Everything really really fits so well to me! ^^
I think this topic is really really interesting!
And it's a perfect topic to talk about with much fun.
You think so, too? ^^