如果还在一起

如果当我28岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们牵手去见彼此的家人，
获取他们的认同。

如果当我29岁时，
我们还在一起，
我会挽起留了很久的长发，
做你最美的新娘。

如果当我30岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们一起期待着迎接那个加入我们小家庭的新生命的降临。

如果当我31岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们一起用心经营我们的家，
每天听着宝宝稚嫩的声音叫我们“爸爸”，“妈妈”。

如果当我34岁时，
我们还在一起，
不管周围的人如何分分和和，
继续着我们的幸福。

如果当我40岁时，
我们还在一起，
就算最初的激情已被现实的生活打磨殆尽，
一切归于平淡，
但彼此的目光仍然会追逐着对方的身影，
相视一笑也会觉得安心。

如果当我50岁时，
我们还在一起，
孩子离开我们去追寻他们的幸福，
虽然想念宝宝，
依然还有你陪在我的身边，
每天傍晚手牵手一起散步。

如果当我60岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们都已该休息，
有了大把的时间一起去做彼此曾经想做而没做的事，
去想去而没去过的地方。

如果当我70岁时，
我们还在一起，
身边的孩子们都已经称呼我们“爷爷”，“奶奶”，
你还是当我是个不会照顾自己的孩子，
呵护着你眼中的“孩子”。

如果当我79岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们要通知所以认识的人，
邀请所有的人来参加我们的金婚纪念日，
分享我们的幸福快乐。

如果当我80岁时，
我们还在一起，
我们会每天躺在摇椅上一起晒太阳，
虽然不知道生命会持续到哪一天，
因为身边有彼此的陪伴，
不再恐惧死亡，
享受生命中的每一天。

如果当我走到生命的最后一天时，
我希望身边有你陪伴，
我不要做那个留下来的人，
请允许我自私的先离开这个世界，
又或者你坚持不了了，我愿意陪你一同远去...
因为，
没有你的世界是冰冷的，
所以，
亲爱的，
如果到了那一天，
请让我先走，或带上我一起，
因为，
曾经属于两个人共享的幸福我一个人收纳不了....

When It Comes To Love

When it comes to love.. If you truly do love that person then you will push through any adversity just to be with them, whether it may be distance or just things people say in general, because in your mind the person you love is worth it, through the pain you know good times are in store for the future, so you stay strong and do whatever it takes just to be with them because they hold this special place in your heart and can make you feel like no one can make you feel. If someone means something to you and you know that is the person you want to be with then don't let anything stop you from being with them, only you have the ability to control your decisions, so if you want to be with them then do it because if you want it bad enough, it can happen. Sometimes when it comes to love you have to fight for that person to show them how much they mean to you, so by all means do it and let them know that your heart is true and that it calls one name, theirs.
"Distance doesn't matter. If you want to be with someone, do something about it because you know you can if you really put your mind to it."

谁？

如果我想要抱抱、誰會讓我抱多久都行?
如果我想找人聊天、誰會陪我聊到大半夜?
如果我突然想要聽歌、誰會在我耳邊輕輕的唱?
如果我累了、誰肩膀給我依靠?
如果我哭了、誰會幫我擦眼淚?
如果我失蹤了、誰會滿世界的找我?
如果我淋雨感冒了、誰會給我買感冒藥?
如果我因為沒睡想要補眠、誰會給我個舒服的枕頭?
如果我遇到傷心的事不想待在這裡、誰會一句話不說就帶我離開這裡?
誰會在我傷心孤獨的時候給我個堅實肩膀?
如果我希望有人為我做這些、誰會願意為我這樣做?

How You Define Love?

How do you define Love?
People define love base on their experience.

But for me "Love is Acceptance".
Why? Because when you love that person, you accept that person for who he/she really is. It's when the negative things about him/her doesn't affect you. Meaning, you clearly love him/her only if you've accepted that person.

That's why Love isn't blind at all. It sees, but it doesn't mind :)

Jealous Thing

When a girl is jealous, it is normal. But if it is for a boy? Come on :) To tell you the truth, only a few boys are loyal to their girlfriends now. You're lucky to have a jealous boyfriend. It doesn't mean that he doesn't trust you, he's just afraid of you to fall in love with others. Especially about spending time together. Whenever you're with him, make him feel the most important boy in the world. And he'll love you more than anyone else :)

How To Love a Woman

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together, but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze, and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.

Do You Know Your Blood Type?

You know, that there're different blood types, so A, B, AB and 0.
What's about the blood type and the characteristic written to it. Let's see! ^^



Blood type A

 

People with blood type A have a deep-rooted strength that helps them stay calm in a crisis when everyone else is panicking. However, they tend to avoid confrontation, and feel very uncomfortable around people. A types are shy and sometimes withdrawn. They seek harmony and are very polite, but all the same feel that they never really fit in with others. A types are very responsible. If there is a job to be done, they prefer to take care of it themselves. These people crave success and are perfectionists. They are also very creative, and the most artistic of all the blood types, most likely because of their sensitivity.

Blood type B

 

People with blood type B are the most practical of the blood groups. They are specialists in what they do. When they start a project, they spend extra time understanding and trying to follow directions than others might. When they are doing something, all of their attention is focused on it. They tend to stick to a goal and follow it through to the end, even if it seems impossible. They tend to be less than cooperative, as they like to follow their own rules and their own ideas. They are individualists. B type people pay attention to their thoughts a little more than their feelings, and therefore can sometimes seem cold and serious.

Blood type 0

 

People with blood type O people are outgoing, energetic and social. They are the most flexible of the blood types. They easily start up projects but often have trouble following through because they give up easily. They are flighty and not too dependable. O types always say what's on their mind. They value the opinion of others and like to be the center of attention. Also, people with O blood are extremely self-confident.

Blood type AB

 

People with blood type AB are hard to categorize. They can have characteristics on both ends of the spectrum at the same time. For instance, they are both shy and outgoing. They easily switch from one opposite to another. AB people are trustworthy and responsible, but can't handle it when too much is asked of them. They don't mind doing favors or helping out, as long as its on their own conditions. People with this blood type are interested in art and metaphysics.

 

So, related to dating, it's believed, that this blood type combinations are really well fitting together:
A is most compatible with A and AB.
B is most compatible with B and AB.
AB is most compatible with AB, B, A, and O.
O is most compatible with O and AB.

So do you know which blood type you and your friends are?
Can you recognize some characteristics fitting to your blood type?
What do you think about that!
So, I in personal believe, that you can't generalize people based on their blood type or something else...but when I read the description of the characteristics of my blood type..wow...amazing. Everything really really fits so well to me! ^^
I think this topic is really really interesting!
And it's a perfect topic to talk about with much fun.
You think so, too? ^^

时间会让你死心

一个女孩子暗恋一个男孩子两年了。她曾经鼓起勇气向他表白，当时他只是微笑，没有回答。半年之后，他告诉她，他仍然挂念着初恋女友，现在没打算谈恋爱。
虽然如此，她仍然没有放弃。他知道她喜欢他，所以，他有时对她的态度和语气也很差劲。身边的朋友都替她不值，她也知道，但她还是那么喜欢他。她说：
“你曾经说过，想不喜欢一个人，只需要把他的缺点放大就可以。如果我已经了解他的缺点，而仍然喜欢他，那怎么办？”
那真是没办法了。
既然连他的缺点都不介意，那么，只好等时间让自己死心。
为什么要这样委屈自己去喜欢一个人呢？当他不爱你的时候，他是骄傲的，所以，他可以对你那么差劲。有一天，当他寂寞，当他找不到女人的时候，他或者会要你，但那不是爱。他要了你之后，也许会对你比以前更差劲。你终于可以和他亲近了。你以为你可以用爱去改变他和感动他。然而，一天一天的过去，你发觉只是你一个人在付出。他不爱你，从前不爱，现在不爱，以后也不会爱。
时间会让你输的心服口服。那时候，你才会真正了解他的缺点。

Love Is...

Love is a feeling transpired from the heart. Love cannot be thoroughly describe nor can it be define by anyone. Not even the most intelligent or the wisest people can tell you what love is. For love is something you need to experience yourself to know exactly how it feels. You need to experience the swelling of your heart when you see that other person. You need to experience the butterflies inside your stomach when you hear them talk. You need to experience the pain when you realize just how much you miss them being next to you. And you need to experience the heartbreak when it is time for that love to end…Yes, I do believe that love is the most beautiful thing on this earth because without it, we’re nothing but a piece of flesh walking on two feet. Love have the power join people together and bring everyone happiness. However, love can also bring pain for it is the most excruciating torture when someone have their heart broken. Love is so many things put into one; it would take forever just to try and think of all the feelings it can bring forth. Love is something that is not explainable, and it is a mystery everyone wants to figure out. But the more we try to figure it out, the more we would fall in love, and falling in love can lead to the unfavorable heartbreak.

我只希望

我只是希望找到一個擔心失去我的人。
我只是希望找到一個不會放棄我的人。
我只是希望找到一個需要我的人。
我只是希望找到一個愛我、關心我的人。
我只是希望找到一個真心對我好、在乎我的人。
我只是希望找到一個每天對我說早安/晚安的人。
我只是希望能找到這樣的一個人、即使我微笑著說：「我沒事」的時候他也能察覺到我的痛苦。